5 Warning Signs of a Cheater

Do you suspect that your spouse could be cheating? If your natural instinct makes you feel that you’re in a relationship with a cheater, below is a list of warning signs/indications that your suspicions might be valid.


Changes in behavior include:

  1. New found or rekindled interest in his/her appearance – You have observed that your spouse is going to the gym out of the blue, or working out much more frequently.  This may also be coupled with a change in their personal style, such as purchasing a new wardrobe or getting a new haircut.
  2. Keeps communication with others extremely private – When you enter the room and your spouse is on a phone call, he/she will abruptly end the conversation instead of speaking in front of you.  They also are likely to minimize your exposure to their computer/cell phone activities including text messaging, e-mail, social media usage and overall internet browsing.
  3. Seems to take a negative approach when spending time together/alone – Your spouse may appear sexually disinterested for a prolonged period.  During this time they will continuously start petty arguments and become highly critical of you, using the situation as an excuse to leave.  Cheaters are also known for flipping the script and turning your suspicions into accusations of wrongdoing on your part.
  4. The unknown or under explained – Do long periods of time go by when your spouse seems to fall off the grid by not responding to any of your phone calls or messages?  If that is the case, they are likely with someone you’ve never met, and they often attribute the lost time to an undetermined work schedule.  Many take advantage of these excuses by leaving early in the morning or staying out late at night to escape the house. You may also find they are leaving their wedding ring at home, without a good reason as to why.
  5. Finances/spending – Your spouse guards against you seeing or handling any bills.  They may have increased the amount of cash they normally carry, as to avoid a paper trail of any affair.


If your spouse exhibits any of the qualities/characteristics described above, and your gut suggests that he/she is cheating, you deserve an explanation. Hiring an experienced private investigator can help resolve your suspicions. Call for a consultation 866-352-4274


Keep Quiet When You Suspect Cheating 

So, you have reason to suspect that your spouse is cheating. Your natural inclination may be to allow your feelings of anger, disappointment and sadness dictate your actions. However, while it may seem like a good idea to vent your emotions, releasing anger by accusing your spouse of infidelity; in reality your best bet may be to sit tight and keep quiet.

Why you ask?

Because In our experience, the cheater will lie 99% of the time when confronted regarding cheating. The fact of the matter is they will fabricate a story and not admit any wrongdoing unless there is hard evidence which they cannot refute.

In fact, in accusing him/her and revealing your suspicion, you are merely showing your hand and emphasizing the mistakes or flaws of their cheating scheme. The more you probe, the smarter they will become. They will use any suspicions that you present as a way to be extra careful the next time around. In a way, you are highlighting their errors, so that he/she knows which areas to address to continue deceiving you.

You may even think the cheating has ended after an angry confrontation with you, when in reality you’ve helped to cultivate and adapt a more sophisticated and cautious level of adultery.  The high of cheating is often too great of an addiction for any cheater to stop cold turkey.

Rather than letting your emotions control how you react to a potential affair and absent-mindedly tipping your hand to a spouse, the better alternative is to express your suspicion and reasoning to our investigators who can explore the specific situation. Our private investigators will utilize video surveillance, which you can then see with your own eyes to determine if your suspicions are in fact justified.  Video is the only thing that will end the lies because video cannot be refuted.The potential of a cheating spouse will trigger a strong emotional response from anyone. However, it is important to consider that while acting on emotion may cause temporary relief & satisfaction, it could seriously hinder a long-term investigation. Rather than confronting your spouse, who will automatically deny any wrongdoing, contact an experienced private investigator who can gather information discretely which will ultimately reveal the undeniable truth. Call for a consultation 866-352-4274 


Surveillance

If you suspect you have a cheating spouse on you, our expert surveillance team is ready to assist you in finding out the truth. Our investigators will provide photographic and video proof of questionable activity or infidelity and assist you in taking appropriate next steps to resolve the issue. We will also provide you with valuable divorce advice and support to protect yourself and your interests in divorce or child custody proceedings against a cheating spouse or cheating mate.All information conversations and information provide by client is strictly confidential. Call for a consultation 866-352-4274 


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It is not out of the ordinary for people to lose touch with those they once cared about. Estranged family members often find that time heals old wounds, and as people mature through their lives they realize that there are few things in life more precious than family and friends. John Everett Investigative Services has facilitated thousands of such searches, and when successful have also often counseled both parties on the proper way to facilitate a reconnection if and only if mutually desired by both parties.We consider our services in this area to be unique. We use a proprietary database and public records from across the country, then combine them with an element of human interaction to provide a personalized approach to reconnecting with loved ones - often in the most difficult of circumstances. Call for a consultation 866-352-4274

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